LemOn teA

Sunday, October 21, 2007

did some quiz..took it frm erm.. my poly friend's blog haha..

you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO (aka "The Charmer").
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.

How to Get Along with Me
-Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
-Share fun times with me.
-Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
-Let me know that I am important and special to you.
-Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.

In Intimate Relationships
-Reassure me that I am interesting to you.
-Reassure me often that you love me.
-Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.

What I Like About Being a TWO
-being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
-knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
-being generous, caring, and warm
-being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
-being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor

What's Hard About Being a TWO
-not being able to say no
-having low self-esteem
-feeling drained from overdoing for others
-not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
-criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
-being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them
-working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings

TWOs as Children Often
-are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism
-try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
-are outwardly compliant
-are popular or try to be popular with other children
-act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention
-are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted TWOs), or quiet and shy (the more introverted TWOs)

TWOs as Parents
-are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)
-are often playful with their children
-wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"
-can become fiercely protective

true anot?? hahas.. the link is here..i hope my friend doesnt mind sharing this wif every1 =s.. go try it if ya free! =D

~~LemOn teA~~ ^___~ _{6:53 PM}